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Seeing Purple: On Pens and Paying AttentionMaya Talisman Frost Its back-to-school time once again, and purple is IN. Im not talking about fashion trends--though the September issues of most magazines are singing the praises of plum and berry shades. No, Im referring to the hottest item at Office Depot, Staples, and other school supply meccas. Purple pens. According to a recent article in The Boston Globe, many teachers are giving up their infamous red pens and turning to purple. Although some stalwarts are gripping their crimson felt tips, others are embracing the royal shade in all its jewel tones. Red is aggressive. It suggests danger. It makes us stop. A returned assignment covered with red corrections is a hallmark of humiliation. If "seeing red" is a euphemism for rage, seeing red marks is a sign of failure. Bring on the purple. Purple is friendlier. Violet checks arent as likely to cause cringing. Lavender circles are easier on the eyes. Purple gets your attention without increasing your heart rate, and according to color psychologists, it is therapeutic for those suffering from nervous tension or mental anguish. I feel like dancing in the streets in my orchid boots, tossing my lilac beret in the air and twirling my dozen iris scarves. You see, I am known as the "woman who wears purple" and I make it a big part of my work. I use purple to make a statement, but Im borrowing the idea from Alice Walker, author of The Color Purple, who said: "I think it pisses God off if you walk by the color purple in a field somewhere and dont notice it." Purple makes perfect sense as my color of choice. Theres nothing woo-woo about it for me. Its not favored by my guru I dont have one. It isnt about connecting with my chakras. It happens to be in style this season, but believe me, if I am considered a fashionista, it is purely by accident. No, I use purple as my black because of Alice Walker and chromotherapy. If boysenberry walls stimulate deeper concentration in monks who spend all day meditating, its good enough for me. Besides, I look good in it. I hand out custom-ordered purple M&Ms in my workshops as part of a mindfulness exercise. I encourage clients to consider grape-colored items as triggers for paying attention. Would red work just as well Possibly, but its more glaring. Red reminds us of sirens--and blood. Red says "gotta" while purple says "please". Red means business, but purple hints that theres a party down the hall when youre finished. Critics of the pen switch say that educators should be more concerned with teaching skills and less worried about bruising feelings. They say that those traditional red pens create tension and thats what motivates students to get it right next time. Hmm. Tension doesnt help me learn better. I dont like paying bills, but using purple ink to write my checks makes it all a bit more festive. Im guessing teachers would benefit from the color switch as much as students. Purple is the color of mindfulness. I cant think of anything more likely to prevent mistakes than a friendly reminder to pay attention. Purple pens could turn out to be effective triggers for learning, and at the very least, make those corrections more palatable. Now, wheres that party
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God Dont Like Rich People I will never forget the day that my daughters sixth grade friend told me that.We had been discussing someone who had recently lost a fortune and had become very bitter as a result.She suddenly piped up with that all knowing scowl that only a twelve year old girl can truly master while proclaiming, "God dont like rich people!"She said it as if it was a mortal sin worthy of an eternity in hell.She immediately made a snap decision from that point forward to dislike the person wed been talking about.Ive met her dad.Hes a nice enough guy and from what I can tell, he agrees with his daughter.They are very regular attendees at their church.I dont know what church they go to, but all I could think to myself at the time was, "Who in the world is teaching her that!" How to Create an Emotional Bond with Your Child One of the most powerful tools that parents have for raising their children is the natural emotional bond that exists between them and their child.Children who feel close to their parents will have a strong desire to obey them.No child with this type of connection to his parents will want to risk hurting that connection by disobeying them.When such a relationship exists, the mere look of dissatisfaction on the face of a parent will usually be enough to curb inappropriate behavior.This bond is so strong and so potent that it lasts even through adolescence when most of the disciplinary tools at our disposal are ineffective.Often, it is the only tool we have in guiding our teenage children.Parents who do not have such a connection with their children have lost a vital resourcenecessary for successful parenting. I Hope You Are Responsible Where is Yesterday Really where did it go I mean.............. How can 24hrs just disappear Must Manners be Taught PLEASE answer the following questions honestly. Go ahead – you won’t be graded. Borderline Division 1 How To Make It As a former NCAA Division 1 Athlete, I have parents ask me quite often what their son or daughter needs to do in order to make it to the highest level of college athletics. Variety...even children need it Books and children should go hand in hand. There are just about as manydifferent books as there are different children. Variety is whateveryone needseven children! Here are a few fabulously writtenelectronic childrens books from authors who are sure to becomefavorites in your household. The Giving Jar Giving with a happy heart. If you teach a child to give with a happy heart you will raise a child who will never hesitate to lend a helping hand. Children enjoy helping others, especially if they see their parents doing the same. When a childs basic physical and emotional needs are met, they are willing to share almost anything they have with someone in need. Jump off the Stress Express--Bring Back the Holiday Spirit with Family Christmas Traditions Twas the week before Christmas and all though the house everything was in shambles. Too much to do and not enough time. More shopping to be done, presents to wrap, cookies to bake and decorating await. Oh the hustle and bustle, the extra work and the stress. Is it any wonder you feel like the Kranks Pre Algebra Pre algebra is the subject you need to understand before moving on to learn algebra. In other terms, you can say that pre algebra is the perfect platform from where you can move on to algebra. However, we will talk about pre algebra as a separate entity here. 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Fiction- Good or Bad for Children More Than I Can Bear One of my long time best friends called me the other night with a horrible pain in her heart.She needed someone to talk to.Rumor had it her daughter might be suicidal and she was trapped on a business trip until the next evening.Her husband was home handling the situation, but she wasnt going to be okay until she could hold her daughter close.She needed to look deep into her daughters eyes to get a read on what was really going on inside her mind.Until she could really sit down and talk to her daughter, she could at least pick my brain as to what to do.We talked a bit about when we were seventeen, and I tried to commit suicide.Now, all these years later, what could I say to my friend or to her daughter to make it all better ABCs of Becoming an Effective Teen A: Acquire a Strong and Positive Attitude Struggling With Addictions What kind of bad habits do you struggle with Most people think that when they come to Christ that their bad habits will magically disappear. And some church people act like if you have any bad habits in your life that you must not truly be saved, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Christians or not, we are all people, and people make mistakes. People have bad habits. |
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