False Forecasts Lead to Matchmaking Hell

False Forecasts

The typical methods for finding a partner are based on personality tests, psychological profiles, and our own evaluation of a potential partner.

Most of the matchmaking techniques used on these sites are doomed to failure because the harmonious relationship forecast turns out to be false. For instance, consider those sites that claim their methods are scientific and say this validates their results. But the current divorce rate undermines any belief that such methods work.

Most people tend to repeat the same mistakes and issues in their second marriage. Others say that they got a lot smarter by the third marriage. But that is an awful waste of life, pain, and suffering. When you follow those traditional matchmakers on the dating sites or even your own intuition, you are very likely to fail.

Why?

The obvious conclusion is that most people don't have enough tools for finding out what another person is really like inside. If this is your situation, then I can assure you that there are real answers. Simply turn to the heavens.

Did you know that the signs of the zodiac reveal "human attitudes" and that the planets reveal "personal desires?" If you know how these energies function in your potential mate and can determine how they relate to your own energies, you will have irrefutable evidence of what a person is like on the inside. You will then be able to discover whether you can live in harmony or not. What could be more validating?

If your superstitions or beliefs have prevented you from exploring what is really available to you in the heavens, maybe it's time to take another look. If you would like to learn more about this kind of matchmaking check this out.

If you are seriously looking for a lasting relationship and want to avoid the guess-matchmaking madness that is infesting the internet, explore the signs and planets within you and your potential partner. This could lead you to matchmaking heaven.

Randall Curtis is a professional astrologer with world-wide clients, founder of Planetary Psychology©, and The Institute of Professional Astrology. He is he author of an outstanding text on astrology, "No One is a Mystery - How to Use the Planets to Understand Anybody" which can be found at this

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